I have quite often been told, by
non-Christians and Christians alike, that I should not judge others. They will
recite Scripture to me (the non-believers too!). Have you ever heard this
before?
“Do not judge so that you will not
be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your
standard of measure, it will be measured to you."
-Mathew 7:1-2
This is normally where they stop.
The rest of the passage is rather important as well however...
"Why do you look at the
speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your
own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck
out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite,
first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take
the speck out of your brother’s eye."
- Matthew 7:3-5
And how about just a few verses
later?
"Beware
of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly
are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their
fruits. Grapes are not gathered from thorn bushes nor figs from
thistles, are they? So every good tree bears good fruit, but the bad
tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot produce bad fruit, nor
can a bad tree produce good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good
fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. So then, you will know
them by their fruits."
Matthew 7:15-20
You will know them
by their fruits...This sounds a lot like we are supposed to judge the
fruits of people who claim Christ. This is reiterated by Paul in 1 Corinthians 5.
It is very
important to realize that Christians are not meant to judge the actions of
non-believers. Paul very clearly points this out, also in 1 Corinthians
5.
I think this sums
it up all very nicely:
"I wrote to
you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral
person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a
swindler—not even to eat with such a one."
-1 Corinthians 5:11
The phrase 'so-called brother' is
what really nails it down. Clearly, if someone comes in the name of Christ, we
are supposed to look at their life and weigh it against the fruits of the
spirit we see in Scripture. We are not supposed to simply take their word for
it.
But in all things let us show grace
and love. And, let us also not forget the first part of Matthew 7:
“Do not judge so that you will not
be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your
standard of measure, it will be measured to you."
as well as John 7:24:
"Do not judge according to
appearance, but judge with righteous judgment."
So in our judgments of others we
must remember that we are all fallen and that nobody is perfect. But let us not
be afraid to judge the actions of others and be made vulnerable to false
teachers and false prophets. Before you give someone influence in your life,
examine theirs and test it against Scripture as Paul and Jesus have commanded.